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How Can We Have an Amicable Separation?
Worried whether it's possible to separate amicably? We show you how separation and divorce with respect and without conflict is possible!

Selina Trigg
Jan 75 min read
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Holiday Sur-Thrival After a Separation
If the holiday season isn’t looking merry & bright for you because you’re recently separated, there's things you can do to turn that around!

Selina Trigg
Dec 11, 20245 min read
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The Value of a Valuation
When faced with a relationship property division, how do you know when to get a real estate agent’s appraisal, or a registered valuation?

Selina Trigg
Dec 2, 20243 min read
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Co-Parenting through the Holidays
The build-up to the holidays can be stressful. Sorting out the parenting arrangements for your children early can help reduce that stress.

Selina Trigg
Nov 3, 20245 min read
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My Relationship was Short – will my Ex Get Half my House?
Most people know about the presumptions of “equal sharing” in relationship property law. Less people are aware of the exceptions.

Selina Trigg
Sep 25, 20244 min read
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Ten Free Things You Can do to Help Resolve your Family Law Issue
Looking for a cost effective way to work through your family problem, look no further as here we have ten free things you can do to help you

Selina Trigg
Sep 11, 20243 min read
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When Avoiding Legal Costs Ends Up Costing You in Your Separation
Bypassing legal advice can ultimately end up costing you more when you separate or divorce. Here’s why.

Selina Trigg
Jul 1, 20244 min read
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My Marriage was Short - Can I get an Annulment?
Find out what legal requirements need to be met in order for the Family Court to declare a marriage void.

Selina Trigg
Jun 24, 20243 min read
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Timing is Everything in Your Separation or Divorce!
The pace you sort out your financial & legal matters after a separation or divorce can have consequences you didn’t foresee.

Selina Trigg
Jun 17, 20245 min read
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Being All Over the Paperwork in Your Separation!
When going through a separation or divorce, being organised with the paperwork can save you money. Here’s how to be all over this!

Selina Trigg
Jun 10, 20244 min read
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Dividing Up Your Kiwisaver or Superannuation on Separation
Will my ex get half my Kiwisaver or superannuation? As this blog points out, not necessarily.

Selina Trigg
Jun 3, 20243 min read
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6 Ways Collaborative Divorce is Different
How is using the Collaborative process in your separation or divorce different to other resolution processes on offer?

Selina Trigg
May 27, 20246 min read
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Planning to Move with Your Children after Separation
Forget worrying about having enough packing boxes - relocation issues after separation can become a legal and emotional minefield!

Selina Trigg
May 13, 20246 min read
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Navigating Storms: Reaching Parenting Agreements using Family Dispute Resolution
Reaching agreement about the care arrangements for your child after separation may be possible using Family Dispute Resolution.

Jules McClain
May 6, 20243 min read
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Keeping the Temperature Down in Disputes with your Ex
There are constructive ways your lawyer can help you dial down the conflict in your separation or divorce to reach agreement.

Selina Trigg
Apr 30, 20244 min read
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The 9 Things You Are Most Likely to Miss in Your Property Division
Here are the 9 top items that get overlooked when an “uncoupling couple” are working through the division of their relationship property.

Selina Trigg
Apr 29, 20244 min read
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Your First Appointment with a Family Lawyer? Read this First!
If you want to engage the services of a family lawyer, what can you do to make sure you get the most out of your first appointment?

Selina Trigg
Apr 28, 20243 min read
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Keeping Hold of the Steering Wheel - Mediating Your Way to Resolution
Mediation can allow you to is one way to reach resolution without fanning the flames of conflict and without the lawyers' letters.

Selina Trigg
Mar 28, 20243 min read
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"I Want to Keep the House!!"
If you own a home, one of the biggest questions going around in your head after separation will likely be “What happens to the house?”....

Selina Trigg
Mar 27, 20245 min read
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Can you Rely on a Contracting Out Agreement?
After signing your Contracting Out Agreement, there are things you need to make sure you regularly do if you want it to remain valid.

Selina Trigg
Mar 27, 20243 min read
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